by Carrie | Feb 13, 2023 | Couples
Couples counseling is a big commitment. Yes, there may be logistical and financial considerations. However, by agreeing to attend couples counseling with your partner, you are sending the message that you want to make the relationship your priority. You probably have...
by Carrie | Jul 22, 2020 | Couples
It could be that you and your partner have been struggling for some time now. Perhaps, you always disagree and can’t see eye-to-eye. Or maybe the coronavirus pandemic, forcing you both to be home more, is bringing to light or emphasizing issues you didn’t realize were...
by Carrie | Mar 5, 2020 | Couples
Why do you keep getting these odd text messages from your partner? They always seem to be messaging you about where you are, what you’re doing, and who you’re with. It’s like they can’t help themselves and just don’t trust you…to do anything right. Do you hear warning...
by Carrie | Jul 25, 2019 | Couples
Relationships need constant maintenance to stay strong and viable. Just like a garden, it needs attention to grow into its full potential. That means practicing strategies that strengthen your relationship for the long haul. These don’t have to be big, dramatic...
by Carrie | Jul 9, 2019 | Couples
It’s all been settled. The ink’s dry and a painful chapter in your life has closed. But now what? How do you cope with the aftermath of divorce? Sadly, divorce is common for many of us. The best estimate, based on projections, is 45% of marriages will end in divorce....
by Carrie | Jun 25, 2019 | Couples
It’s happening again. You and your partner are slipping into an argument about money. This has happened before, so you can see it coming. This time it’s because he made a really big purchase without consulting with you first. What’s wrong with him?! You’d think he...
by Carrie | Jun 11, 2019 | Couples
There’s a reason we have so many clichés about change…the only constant is change, out with the old and in with the new, all good things must come to an end…yada yada. We all go through the peaks and pits of life, and for most of us, you experience them...
by Carrie | May 13, 2019 | Couples
If you’re like most people, you’ve probably heard about the dangers of toxic relationships. There are plenty of stories from people who have experienced horrible physical, emotional and psychological abuse from partners. The truth is most relationships don’t start out...
by Blue Boat Counseling | Dec 11, 2018 | Couples
Name three specific things you resent about your partner. Now name three specific things you appreciate about them. This shouldn’t be too hard. But now imagine doing this in the presence of your spouse. Couples counseling is a nuanced and diverse process. However, a...